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By Herb “Padre” Agee
Englewood United Methodist Church
I’m sitting at home right now with the TV on. I came home for lunch and turned it on while I ate the three hot wings left over from last night. I needed more, by the way, because I love the Publix hot and spicy wings from the deli.
Anyway, CSI was on the Spike channel. Boy, is it ever easy to get hooked on that show. When one is over, they don’t even go to commercial, they move immediately into the next show to hook you for another hour, then another, and then another. I’m not saying I did that when I should have been working. But guess what? All of a sudden you realize you’ve watched several hours of CSI and been exposed to dozens of commercials, which, of course, is why they made the show in the first place. Or didn’t you know that?
Did you think they did those shows for your entertainment? Oh, maybe some writer was enjoying their creativity while developing a storyline, but ultimately they were trying to write something that would sell; something an advertiser would think was good enough to hold your attention long enough for you to see a commercial.
That commercial, creative in its own right, has the sole purpose of putting a product in your mind. It might be to inform you about the product; it might be to compare it to a competitive product; or it might be only to leave the product name on your mind. I’ve seen commercials that were great, usually funny, but when it was over, I didn’t know what the product was or what it did, but I knew the name. And I knew that I wanted one, real bad! Bingo — that’s what it’s all about. It’s that commercial, or rather the product and corporation behind it, that was the reason for it all. TV shows are basically made only to hold your attention between commercials. Only PBS does shows nobody would pay to see, because they’re supported by the government. I’m fine with that. We need something more educational than vampires.
How sad! How sad that everything we do seems to be linked to what we can be paid for doing it, rather than doing something we love. Because then the question always becomes, “Can I get paid more for doing it for someone else or somewhere else?” or “Will it sell better in another market? “
Interesting, huh? There are a few people who do jobs they love even though they could make more money doing something else. But most of us make our decisions about our work based solely on what it will pay us. Preachers — not so much. Once we are used to a certain standard of living and are in debt, we are stuck even though we wish we could change to something we enjoy.
Creative people are good at doing what they love. Think of the artists or musicians you know who live frugal financial lives so they can do what they love. I love the guys who once hoped they would make it big in a band someday, but now they are 50 years old and still playing every night in a local bar because they love the music. They can’t have a “regular” job because they don’t get to bed until three or four in the morning.
This economy has changed some people’s understanding of work and what’s important and valuable. They were doing something they hated, but were making a lot of money. Then they lost their job and realized that if you get rid of the boat, the RV, the jet skis, the four-wheelers, the third car, the house on the lake (everything but the Harley), you could live on a lot less each month. Some of the moms or dads have started staying home with the kids since they didn’t have a job and couldn’t afford daycare. Their own lives and the life of their family have changed for the better even though they hated how it came about.
I hope you get to do something you love and make enough to live on. My wife always says, “Enough is as good as a feast.”
I recently watched a video about a family of six who live in a regular suburban neighborhood in California. Their front yard is beautiful, but everything is edible. Their back yard is all raised beds and they farm. They have chickens and a goat and they sell their extra produce and eggs to neighbors and local restaurants. They live, in Pasadena, Calif., on $30,000 a year. Nobody works, except on the farm. They live on a fifth of an acre. If you want to see the video, let me know and I’ll send you the link.
So, when you’re watching a TV show you’re hooked on, remember, they’re just trying to sell you something. Probably something you don’t really need, even though you want one — really, really want one.
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